This Door leads to…

This Door leads to…

What door do I walk through, and why do I choose it?   Those were the questions examined at an ArtBoston exhibit that I, and many others walked through. Doors opened and shut as we went, and a computer kept track of the choices made, tallying them up, and...
Winning the Battle and Losing the War

Winning the Battle and Losing the War

Probably the best statistical graphic ever drawn, this map by Charles Joseph Minard portrays the losses suffered by Napoleon’s army in the Russian campaign of 1812. Beginning at the Polish-Russian border, the thick band shows the size of the army at each...
Down but not Out!

Down but not Out!

Oh, Ouch, ouch, ouch! My leg…. Help! My ski. Please get it off!. Oh, Owwww. Damn.  That really hurt.  Oh, great. Thank you. That’s better. Can you get the other ski off? That really hurt. Where does it hurt? I’m not sure. My knee but I’m not sure where. It didn’t pop....
Kinds of Love

Kinds of Love

For as long as I can remember, the power of language has fascinated me: which words we choose to express our thoughts, the tone we use when speaking, and–once they’re out–the impact they have on others. When a couple that had once been in love is no...
The Paradox of Power

The Paradox of Power

    “The first duty of government is to protect the powerless from the powerful.”         -Code of Hammurabi, 1772 B.C.   Last weekend, I visited the Holocaust Museum in D.C. for the first time. I was in town for the International Association of...
Bannisters, Behavior, Love and Law

Bannisters, Behavior, Love and Law

                   One day almost a hundred years ago, when my Mom was in school as a little girl, about six years old as I recall the story, she couldn’t resist the temptation of sliding down the banister from the 2nd floor to the 1st. Just as she was about to...
Thunder, Lightning and Rainbows

Thunder, Lightning and Rainbows

The rainbows we’ve recently been seeing in celebration of the SCOTUS decision making marriages we formally called “same-sex”, now just marriages, got me to thinking about the enormity of change family law has undergone during the past fifty or so years. It seems to me...
Commencing with Commencement

Commencing with Commencement

May is replete with many Milestones. Cotillions and Commencements collide. Marriages and for many, divorces. For some, it’s Just the Beginning.  For others, it’s a New Beginning. Amongst the myriad graduation hats and tassels at my daughter’s college Commencement were...
One Team One Goal

One Team One Goal

On the shore of Lake Natoma in Sacramento, California hundreds of hopeful athletes gathered to compete for the NCAA Championship crew races. They were all in peak physical form and had trained for countless hours to be in condition for this, and every other event this...
He Said She Said

He Said She Said

While Laura and I were discussing some issues related to her impending divorce, she asked me if I’d ever watched Louis CK. When I told her I hadn’t, she directed me to a Youtube clip she thought was particularly hilarious, and told me that it had helped her as she...

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