From Free Love Utopia to a Well-Set Table

From Free Love Utopia to a Well-Set Table

What does a well-set table have to do with “complex” and “sticky” marriages? What in fact are complex and sticky marriages, and… for that matter what counts as a “well-set table”? In Oneida- From Free Love Utopia to The Well-Set Table, Ellen Wayland-Smith takes a deep...
All Politics is Personal – Brexit and Divorce

All Politics is Personal – Brexit and Divorce

Politics between nations has always made more sense to me when I turn global situations into personal relationships- for instance when newsprint says “Canada”, I read it as “my niece in Ontario”, and when an article says “Israel”, I see it as “my cousin in Tel Aviv”....
What’s in a Name?

What’s in a Name?

“What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet” In those immortalized words of Shakespeare Juliet insisted that her love for Romeo bested their surnames, and the fact that their families had a long and storied warring history....
This Door leads to…

This Door leads to…

What door do I walk through, and why do I choose it?   Those were the questions examined at an ArtBoston exhibit that I, and many others walked through. Doors opened and shut as we went, and a computer kept track of the choices made, tallying them up, and...
Winning the Battle and Losing the War

Winning the Battle and Losing the War

Probably the best statistical graphic ever drawn, this map by Charles Joseph Minard portrays the losses suffered by Napoleon’s army in the Russian campaign of 1812. Beginning at the Polish-Russian border, the thick band shows the size of the army at each...
Down but not Out!

Down but not Out!

Oh, Ouch, ouch, ouch! My leg…. Help! My ski. Please get it off!. Oh, Owwww. Damn.  That really hurt.  Oh, great. Thank you. That’s better. Can you get the other ski off? That really hurt. Where does it hurt? I’m not sure. My knee but I’m not sure where. It didn’t pop....
Kinds of Love

Kinds of Love

For as long as I can remember, the power of language has fascinated me: which words we choose to express our thoughts, the tone we use when speaking, and–once they’re out–the impact they have on others. When a couple that had once been in love is no...
The Paradox of Power

The Paradox of Power

    “The first duty of government is to protect the powerless from the powerful.”         -Code of Hammurabi, 1772 B.C.   Last weekend, I visited the Holocaust Museum in D.C. for the first time. I was in town for the International Association of...
Bannisters, Behavior, Love and Law

Bannisters, Behavior, Love and Law

                   One day almost a hundred years ago, when my Mom was in school as a little girl, about six years old as I recall the story, she couldn’t resist the temptation of sliding down the banister from the 2nd floor to the 1st. Just as she was about to...
Thunder, Lightning and Rainbows

Thunder, Lightning and Rainbows

The rainbows we’ve recently been seeing in celebration of the SCOTUS decision making marriages we formally called “same-sex”, now just marriages, got me to thinking about the enormity of change family law has undergone during the past fifty or so years. It seems to me...

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