Dissolution to Evolution should be required reading for anyone contemplating or under-going a divorce. Practical, informative and thoughtful, the sane and sound advice offered by Heidi Webb will help you attain a more peaceful, fair and kind transition out of your marriage. Hers is an important voice in this newly emerging paradigm of conscious breakups and divorce.

I have followed with great interest and admiration the evolution of Consilium®, a unique philosophical and practical approach to helping couples through the divorce process. Reflecting the broad experience of its authors, this thoughtful book will be an invaluable resource for family law practitioners, judges, counselors, advisors and most importantly, for parties who are going through the dissolution of a relationship.

Heidi’s proven process lessens the financial fear factor that so often paralyzes people when they can least afford not to act. It is refreshing to see a thoughtful goal oriented approach to such an emotional and complex topic.

I wish I had started my journey through divorce with Heidi instead of moving directly into legal action that broke our family’s trust. Since then, working with her, I have learned how to consider the emotional as well as the legal ramifications of all my decisions regarding our family, and I have a much more positive vision of my future.

My wholeness today, and that of my family, is in large part due to the thoughtful and complete process that Heidi took me through. More than anything I would like to see her book become a huge success: meaning that as a result of the Consilium® Process, thousands, if not millions, of families experience better, more secure outcomes, both financially and most importantly, emotionally.

I came to Heidi Webb on a friend’s recommendation that she would be a good person to speak with regarding finding legal counsel for my divorce. They said she would meet with me and take my information and then provide some good matches in terms of possible lawyers to act on my behalf. I never had to find a lawyer before so the whole thing was a bit terrifying. As soon as I met with her I felt immediately relaxed and at ease. She was very caring, sincere and understanding. She really listened to my story and immediately gave me lots of very good advice. I found her to be extremely competent and knowledgeable. Her depth of human understanding coupled with her legal expertise and experience made me feel like I was in good hands. I trusted her completely to guide me in the right direction.

With her expertise she put together an initial list of lawyers that might be a good match, which she had thoroughly researched and carefully interviewed on the phone and then narrowed it down to a select few. She communicated to me all her reasoning and thought processes about why she selected these lawyers. I then was able to make the final phone call and interview the ones she had carefully selected for me. Her matching was so on target that I hired the first lawyer she had recommended to me and was very pleased with this choice. She not only saved me a great deal of time and energy but I believe the matching process she skillfully performed with her particular expertise and background put me in a much better position to find the right lawyer than I would have on my own. She did all the hard work for me so I could focus on all the other things I had to do at that critical time. Now that my divorce is final, I can say with absolute certainty that she found me an extremely competent and wonderful lawyer who was truly a great match for me.

I am eternally grateful to Heidi Webb. This service that she offers is quite unique and invaluable. It takes the heavy burden off the client to find the right lawyer at a most critical time when you need the help the most. She is a highly qualified professional who will match you with the right lawyer for your situation.

Now, one year later, a lot wiser and stronger, and a lot more aware of my own needs, both emotionally and physically, I can say I see the light at the end of the tunnel. The journey, though painful at times, has also been enlightening, challenging, rewarding, reaffirming, and ultimately one from which I feel I have grown tremendously.

I cannot thank you enough for your support, guidance, referrals, and holistic approach to dealing with the separation. I gained an awareness of myself and what is truly important to me going forward. I know there will continue to be emotional highs and lows in the coming months as I go to court and when the divorce becomes final, but I think I have weathered the worst of it. I’m not sure I would be at this point if it weren’t for your kindness and reassurance back two years ago when I began this journey. It was the most difficult time of my life, for many reasons, and I’m not sure I could have navigated it all without your help.

I was referred to Heidi at the outset when divorce was still just a possibility and am very pleased that I was. She listened carefully, helped weigh the choices (post nup; separation; divorce) and then, as things evolved and we moved toward a divorce, she sized up my spouse’s counsel and made a referral that was superb. Against a top-dollar blow-hard she aligned a genteel and careful lawyer who constantly made the right calls about where things were going, what was posturing, what was real, and where (and this did happen) my own instincts were wrong. In the end she resolved everything exactly as she always said they would resolve, and I was completely satisfied with the outcome. And with Heidi’s solid referral. I highly recommend her.

When my marriage failed, Heidi provided objective, realistic, and compassionate guidance through the process of rebuilding my family. For me, divorce was an intimidating process I never imagined I’d face. It was difficult to know where to turn for advice. Without Heidi, my only resource was the few friends who had been through it before.  That’s helpful, but it is also dangerous because a small, random and probably biased sample doesn’t give you much of an idea of what to expect or how to proceed. Heidi helped me put my divorce in context and navigate my way through so that I had faith that the lawyer I hired and legal process that ensued was the right course for my family. Her vast experience with divorcing families and the divorce process gave me invaluable perspective and support – from how to help myself, my soon-to-be-ex-spouse and my children accept and adjust to change to insightful analysis of how the law applied to my situation. And she also provided hope that when it was over, I would come out the other side intact, stronger and wiser.  I am forever grateful.