They Divorced…but We Did Not

They Divorced…but We Did Not

  I recently attended a Celebration of the life of a remarkable neighbor. Realizing that her cancer might keep her from attending her 88th birthday, she’d planned a party which was to be a celebration either with her, or for her and in lieu of a funeral or...
Two Chocolate Pots and One Amazing Chapel

Two Chocolate Pots and One Amazing Chapel

  The current, wonderful Matisse exhibit at Boston’s Museum of Fine Arts includes paintings, cutouts and sculptures of Henri Matisse, and juxtaposes them with many of the objects he loved, and which inspired his work. Two silver “chocolate pots”, one given...
Sophie’s Unconditional Love Lessons

Sophie’s Unconditional Love Lessons

This past Friday evening our family was filled with gratitude and grief as we laid to rest our much loved Sophie, the English Springer Spaniel pup who worked her way into our hearts and gave us boundless unconditional love during the past 12 ½ years. Many of you knew...
Consent and Congress

Consent and Congress

  We are living in unsettling times, engaged as a country in a relationship where power and its balance is challenged daily. When crafting our Declaration of Independence Thomas Jefferson wrote that a government “deriv[es] its just power from the consent of...
Born A Crime

Born A Crime

  Recently my son introduced me to the serious and comedic work of Trevor Noah. In particular, he suggested I read a passage from Trevor’s autobiography, Born A Crime, in which Noah describes his experience as a bi-racial child growing up in South Africa while...

A House Divided

A House Divided November 9th, 2016 Living in a small town, some might say “a village”, I gathered with friends and family on election eve to await the results of the most contentious and divisive election I’ve ever known. Amidst the “dark and stormy” drinks, the pizza...
That’s How the Light Gets In

That’s How the Light Gets In

  Recently during the Jewish High Holiday services, a time of reflection and renewal, I had the pleasure of hearing Rabbi Darby Leigh speak.  Rabbi Darby was born profoundly deaf, and he’s fond of saying, “I may be deaf but I listen really well”. And indeed he...
From Free Love Utopia to a Well-Set Table

From Free Love Utopia to a Well-Set Table

What does a well-set table have to do with “complex” and “sticky” marriages? What in fact are complex and sticky marriages, and… for that matter what counts as a “well-set table”? In Oneida- From Free Love Utopia to The Well-Set Table, Ellen Wayland-Smith takes a deep...
All Politics is Personal – Brexit and Divorce

All Politics is Personal – Brexit and Divorce

Politics between nations has always made more sense to me when I turn global situations into personal relationships- for instance when newsprint says “Canada”, I read it as “my niece in Ontario”, and when an article says “Israel”, I see it as “my cousin in Tel Aviv”....
What’s in a Name?

What’s in a Name?

“What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet” In those immortalized words of Shakespeare Juliet insisted that her love for Romeo bested their surnames, and the fact that their families had a long and storied warring history....

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